Tell me what to do, I can’t live with other people

I hate people, they don’t understand what I feel, I feel terrible I’m fine only when I look after animals they give me a lot of love and they receive a lot, everything I have inside that I can give. I would like to be in a place where there are animals because I feel it is better not to live

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Giuseppe Del Signore - Psychologist Viterbo

Dear User, animals can give a lot to everyone’s life, but they cannot replace people. “Hating people” simply means having difficulty understanding oneself and others, in emotional terms. It may be helpful to talk directly to a psychologist and try to understand these difficulties with the other on your own. Sincerely, Dr. Giuseppe Del Signore – Psychologist, Psychotherapist

Dear anonymous, people are our mirror and the feelings we have towards them, they are nothing more than a reflection of what we actually are or see in us. Of course, on a rational level it is difficult to understand and accept this concept and I am almost certain that you will reject it. Sometimes we do not recognize in ourselves, defects or attitudes that we would like to change, but we do not succeed in doing so and this leads to feelings of frustration and hatred towards others, because they do not “respond” as we would like to our “requests”. These are expectations and we cannot expect others to act on the sand castles we create in our heads. Yours seems to me a drastic closing attitude and excuse me for the gamble … childish. Try to understand, better with the help of a professional, what is the derivation of all this hatred and the desire for isolation that is manifesting. Perhaps he wishes to change something in his life or himself and failing to do so, he rejects this attitude of his to others. the greatness and uniqueness that makes us … unique and special. Good luck uniqueness that makes us … unique and special. Good luck uniqueness that makes us … unique and special. Good luck

Hi, if he has this attitude but writes for advice, it means that his refuge in animals does not see it as a satisfactory solution. There are several reasons that can lead to such drastic solutions, all legitimate, given the suffering behind it. Perhaps it could be an opportunity to go deeper and begin to live the relationship with oneself and with others more serenely. After all, every difficulty is a springboard towards new equilibriums that are more functional and pertinent to the phase we are experiencing. Good job!

Such a profound unease, full of despair and consequent denial of the world, can have ancient origins and often rationally not identifiable. In addition to therapies that may be recommended to you by the doctors you have probably chosen to consult, I would recommend that you find a good REIKI therapist. Reiki is the most holistic, simple and non-invasive technique that you can find yourself trying and the most appropriate one for evolving and maturing the emotional / spiritual problems that often then lead to the physical / mental level. It is also a fantastic adjunct to medical treatment. I send her a lot of reiki light.

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Hello Anonymous, I reply after reading the answers of colleagues and to add something I would like to bring your attention to one aspect. You claim to hate people and this is undoubtedly a judgmental aspect and perhaps you express this judgment because you feel judged by people and since this certainly does not please you, you respond in the same way. Judging others is a typical human attitude that everyone practices in a more or less intense way and as everyone knows, aminals do not judge, at most they can be afraid and in the latter case they either run away or attack. Certainly you are not afraid of animals and this means that you do not have threatening attitudes towards animals but of welcome and love and the latter reciprocate in the same way. So maybe your hatred towards people hides some resentment that you harbor towards you. Investigating what this hidden thing is, which leads you to hate people, is not a simple thing but often, to heal this “wound” and similar wounds, it may be sufficient to participate in Laughter Yoga sessions, usually practiced in a group but it is also possible to participate in the one-to-one form: the person concerned and a specialized professional who accompanies him in this extraordinarily simple path of improvement. See you soon, happy day with a good laugh to heal this “wound” and similar wounds it may be sufficient to participate in Laughter Yoga sessions, usually practiced in a group but it is also possible to participate in the one-to-one form: the person concerned and a specialized professional who accompanies him in this extraordinarily simple path of improvement. See you soon, happy day with a good laugh to heal this “wound” and similar wounds it may be sufficient to participate in Laughter Yoga sessions, usually practiced in a group but it is also possible to participate in the one-to-one form: the person concerned and a specialized professional who accompanies him in this extraordinarily simple path of improvement. See you soon, happy day with a good laugh