Sometimes taking the first step with a girl is difficult. You do not know what to say, you are afraid you may receive a no, you lack words, you are afraid of saying the wrong thing … In reality, winning a girl is not that difficult, you just need the right moves!

On this page I want to explain 10 tricks you can use to pick up a girl on WhatsApp and convince her that you are the right man for her.

Let’s start?

10 tips for getting a girl on WhatsApp

1. Use clean language

No girl wants someone to use dirty and unpolite language, much less a stranger to shamelessly try with her from the very first words! A girl likes to feel special but she needs time.

Think about what he wants to hear and use a playful and funny tone right away . If you can make her smile, you can be sure that you will increase her interest in her and she will keep talking to you.

As things progress, you will have the opportunity to take your WhatsApp chat to another level. But in the beginning the only way to have any chance is to keep the conversations “clean”.

2. Be smart and be heard at the best times

A girl receives hundreds of WhatsApp messages every day. How to get noticed? Texting on WhatsApp chat overnight is a good place to start. This means that you will be one of her last thoughts of her before bed. Also, you get fewer messages at night and it will be easier to get noticed.

Another good time is in the morning. Write to her early in the day to let her know that one of your first thoughts is her. But don’t push yourself into too romantic or provocative phrases right away. Limit yourself to a simple contact to let her know that you are there.

3. Harness the power of “brevity”!

If you send short WhatsApp messages, you will add a sense of mystery to your conversations. And you know, the mystery attracts! This will keep her interest high as well and avoid boring her.

If you want to get a girl on WhatsApp, start with something as simple as  Hey ,  how’s it going?  . If she asks if you had a good day, there is no need to tell her everything. Just say, yes, thanks, all great

If you use short sentences she will be inclined to ask you what you are doing, who you have been with, etc.

I repeat: she will ask you! And that means you’ve already been able to make her interest grow.

Knowing how to talk to a girl without getting boring is key, and being short is one of the first things to keep in mind. Boredom strikes fast when people chat on WhatsApp and getting too long replies.

4. Write his name in the text of the messages

If you start your messages with her name, she will understand, even subconsciously, that you are talking to her and only her! No girl wants to think that she is receiving the same messages you have sent to who knows how many other women.

Something like, “ Hey, Sara  ” is pretty enough.

Whatever you do, ALWAYS, ALWAYS, make sure you enter her name correctly and use the right name, not other girls! If you make this mistake then you can miss any opportunity to pick up that girl on WhatsApp or otherwise! Every girl wants to feel unique and special.

5. Try to make her laugh, always!

Mood is essential when messaging on WhatsApp. Girls love guys who make them smile, and smiling is a key part of any seduction process . I’ve seen more tough girls conquer with humor than any other way.

This doesn’t mean you have to go out and tell jokes. You have to be funny and make her smile in a gentle and sweet way.

Humor is a very powerful weapon, but if a girl thinks you don’t take anything seriously, that’s the end of it for you.

Another tip: don’t use dirty jokes. If you don’t know a girl well, this kind of humor may offend or dislike her.

As time goes by, you will have a better idea of  ​​what kind of humor he  prefers. Until then, keep a low and balanced profile.

6. Try it without trying

If a girl thinks you’re hitting on WhatsApp right away, you’ll almost certainly get the negative. When you exchange your first messages with her, remember to speak normally, like a friend . She is not your girlfriend yet!

You have to try without showing that you try. Make her laugh, talk to her normally and make her curious. This way the situation will work to your advantage.

7. Never look desperate

This is one of the worst things you can do and it will never get you anywhere. There is nothing worse for a woman than seeing a man weak and insecure, let alone desperate!

If you want to impress a girl you have to keep the right balance : show interest but not despair, only then you can be successful.

In practice this means that as soon as you receive a message from him on WhatsApp, you don’t have to be there ready to reply instantly . Wait some time and respond calmly. In this case I advise you to read the WhatsApp message without appearing online, in this way she will think that you are not the type who is with the phone in hand ready to answer.

8. Not always being available

This point is closely related to the previous one. To conquer a girl on WhatsApp you have to make yourself want , and the desire comes if for something we lack.

In practice, if she contacts on WhatsApp you can reply by saying that you are busy. In the first 30 days you hit her  , make yourself unavailable for a couple of days . Then contact her.

What to write in this case to win her back? You simply have been busy and are sorry you didn’t have time to hear it. That way she’ll think both that you care about her but that over time you care about yourself.

9. Compliment her

It is in the nature of women to want compliments. A few simple words are enough to make a woman happy.

A few examples?

Here’s what to write to a girl to win her over with a compliment:

• I am proud of this thing you have done
• I could not have reacted better than you to this situation
• The other night you were the best of the party
• I’ve seen few people do this like you do
• Or any other phrase that enhances its qualities

As with all other tips, don’t overdo it right away and use the right phrases at the right time. In the early days, for example, you could use the phrase ” I’m proud of you … “, when your confidence is greater you can go further with the phrase ” The other night you were the most beautiful of the party “.

10. Let his desire grow slowly

When you are chatting with a girl on WhatsApp, close the conversation before she does . In particular, it must never happen that she has nothing more to say and therefore she does not want to chat anymore.

Make sure you’re the one who stops the message when you feel the conversation is losing interest. This way the desire for her will grow in anticipation of wanting to talk to you again.

” I have to go, see you tomorrow  ” is the perfect way to end a conversation, without giving too many explanations . This will make it seem like you have other things to do and this air of mystery will make her interest grow.

Another point you need to be careful of is spelling . I know, this sentence reminds you of school but to conquer a girl on WhatsApp you cannot afford grammar errors.

A girl likes to see that a guy has spent time and effort in the messages he sends and, on the other hand, he won’t be impressed (negatively) by trivial mistakes written for distraction.

So take a few seconds and reread the messages before sending them.

10 + 1. What phrases to use to win a girl?

As you read earlier, the best way to seduce a woman is to take it slow and be as gentle as possible, especially at first.

If you play your cards right, his desire will gradually grow and the odds of winning will rise.

At that point, you can jump in and use different words. Sometimes it can take a few hours, other days or weeks. It depends on the type of girl.

In any case, there will be a moment when you will realize that you can push yourself further and that is where you can use high-powered phrases to conquer her.

If you need some inspiration, here are links to some pages with phrases you can use to conquer the woman of your dreams:

• Phrases and images good morning love
• Goodnight phrases and images
• States about love

Small note on how to use these phrases: use these phrases in your WhatsApp messages but always personalize the text by adding something personal. This way the chances of impressing her will be much higher!

Conclusions

The game is done. 10 easy-to-apply tips that will dramatically increase your chances of getting a girl through WhatsApp (if you’re looking to get your ex girlfriend back, here’s a  specific guide to getting your ex back ).

If for any reason, after doing all of these things, the girl doesn’t show interest, you can try more advanced specialist techniques.

I recommend you read this:

Conquer it with a text message

This is a super specific guide with which you will learn how to write messages that can help you conquer the woman of your dreams . The text was born for sms, but the same techniques are also fine for WhatsApp messages. In my opinion, it is the best guide you can find in Italian and also offers some bonuses. Check it out by clicking on the link above.

In the meantime, go and start writing a message to the girl you like taking into account the advice you have read. Who knows, she might really be the right girl.